The complete 60-page preparation system that gave me unshakeable confidence for my dream VBAC homebirth at 42 — during a pandemic, with a midwife I'd never met, and a baby who came 4 weeks early.
This is the exact preparation system I created for my own homebirth — the same framework that allowed me to stay calm and confident when my baby came early, my midwife wasn't there, and I was laboring with a woman I'd never met.
The Homebirth Blueprint Guide (60 Pages) Your complete preparation manual covering mindset, physical readiness, emergency planning, team building, and birth day execution. This isn't generic homebirth advice — it's specifically designed for women navigating the "high risk" label and the unique pressures we face after 40.
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Birth Mantra Posters (20 Printable Pages) Beautiful, calming affirmations to surround yourself with during labor. Print them, hang them in your birth space, and let them anchor you when intensity rises.
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Guided Hypnobirthing Meditation (Audio) The same meditation practice I used to stay calm and present during my own birth. Use it throughout your pregnancy to build the mental muscle that carries you through labor.
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My Personal Birth Movie (5 Minutes) Watch my real homebirth unfold — a 42-year-old VBAC, during a pandemic, with a backup midwife. Proof that it's possible. Proof that preparation works. Proof that your body knows what to do.
Bonus #1: The Emergency Birth Checklist Value: $47
This is the exact checklist I used to coordinate with my local fire department and backup birth team before my due date. You'll know exactly who to call, what to say, and how to ensure emergency services are informed and ready — just in case. This single document eliminated 80% of my fear.
Bonus #2: Partner Preparation Guide Value: $37
Your partner wants to support you, but they might be terrified. This guide shows them exactly how to stay calm, what their role is during labor, and how to be your anchor instead of your anxiety source.
Bonus #3: Scripts for Skeptical Family Members Value: $27
Aren't you scared? What about the baby? Why would you risk it? You'll get word-for-word scripts for handling pushback from parents, in-laws, and well-meaning friends who don't understand your choice.
Bonus #4: My Full Birth Story (Audio) Value: $37
The complete, unfiltered story of my pandemic VBAC at 42 — the fears, the preparation, the moment my water broke, the early arrival, the backup midwife, and the peaceful birth that proved everything I believed about my body was true.
I've had 4 births across 3 decades.
In the 2000s, I had spine surgery. The antibiotics interferred with my birth control and I became pregnant. I had my first baby in a Birth Center. Epidural. Induction. Episiotomy. Interventions I didn't want. The birth I imagined slipping away from me.
In the 2010s, more hospital births. More emergencies. More moments where I felt like my body was being managed instead of trusted. Unnecessary C-Section because of my "Advanced Maternal Age."
By 2020, I was 41 and pregnant again. Doctors were skeptical. And the world was shutting down for a pandemic. It was Terrifying.
But I knew — with absolute certainty — that this baby would be born at home. On my terms. With my body leading the way.
So I prepared. Obsessively. Thoroughly. I studied hypnobirthing. I coordinated with my local fire department. I hired and fired until I found my team. I had backup plans for my backup plans.
And when my son decided to arrive unexpectedly, 4 weeks early — while my midwife was traveling and I'd never met the woman who showed up to help — I wasn't panicked.
That birth changed everything for me. Not just because it healed the trauma of my previous experiences, but because it showed me what's possible when a woman over 40 stops listening to fear and starts preparing for the birth she wants.
Now I help other women do the same.
I've been supporting mothers for over two decades. I assisted at a birth for a friend whose baby is now a grown adult at UCLA.
One intensive coaching session where we'll review your specific situation, answer your questions, and customize your preparation plan. This is for women who want expert eyes on their unique circumstances — past births, health history, fears, and goals.
Best for: Women who want personalized guidance without ongoing commitment
This is full-spectrum support throughout your pregnancy. Not clinical. Not prescriptive. Just me, in your corner, as your Big Sis.
Includes:
Everything in the Blueprint
3 phone calls for real-time guidance when you need it
2 Zoom sessions for deep-dive planning
Personalized research to help you find the right birth team in your area
Direct coordination with your local emergency services so you're fully prepared
On-call support as your due date approaches
I do the research. I make the calls. I help you build your team. You focus on your baby.
Best for: Women who want hands-on support and don't want to navigate this alone.
30-Day Satisfaction Guarantee: If you're not completely satisfied with your Big Sis experience within the first 30 days, I'll refund 80% of your investment. I keep 20% because I begin personalized research for each mother immediately — but I want you to feel confident that this is the right fit.
You didn't land on this page by accident.
Something in you knows that your body is capable of this. That the high risk label doesn't define you. That the birth you've been dreaming about — peaceful, powerful, on your terms — is possible.
The only question is whether you'll prepare for it.
I can't promise you a perfect birth. No one can. But I can promise you this: when you have a clear plan, when you've addressed the fears, when you've prepared for every scenario — you'll walk into your birth with a calm confidence that changes everything.
Even if your baby comes early. Even if your midwife can't make it. Even if the world is falling apart around you.
You'll be ready.
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